Sunday, 22 March 2009


A girlfriend of mine - if you can call us Swinging Sixties 'girls' - is convinced we all have A Soulmate. I'm not so sure. The chance of meeting this person in the context of the Big Wide World would be too random and restricting.

She did however think she'd met him a few years ago. They dipped in and out of each other's lives for a while and then he disappeared.

As time went by, she told me she'd never have sex again because all her drive and desire had gone for good. I told her it would only take the right man to fire her up again.

Last night, he came back and proved me right. Yay! You Go Girl!


wotsisname? said...

Well, there you are you see - you learn something new every day! Yeah, soulmates DO exist (I've met three to date, and you know IMMEDIATELY it's her/him) If you've never experienced it yet Wendy then you're in for a big surprise when you do (and you WILL!)

Wendy Salisbury said...

Hey wotsisname

I thought the definition of 'soulmate' was one man for one woman and vice versa.

Three is diluting it or being greedy! Anyway well done you!

I guess there are moments in every relationship when he 'seems' like my soulmate so a little of something is better than all of nothing!

wotsisname? said...

Yeah - but life goes ON darling (as you've found with your relationships!)My three 'soul mates' are spread over two decades!I think we're talking the same language really, but I think one should avoid the trap of believing that the first 'soulmate' you encounter is IT - for the rest of your life - thereby hangs disaster!